Guilt is Good

Throughout all of my graduate work in Psychology it was emphasized that one of the worst things that could be foisted upon another is a feeling of guilt. You dare not ever say “shame on you,” or in any way create a sense of guilt. If you did, it could damage self-esteem and self-concept perhaps causing mental and emotional dysfunction for a lifetime. Freedom from guilt and shame was an important goal of therapy.

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Witch Doctors

Jackline Mukisa’s eight-year-old son’s body was found in a swamp missing his teeth, lips, ears and genitals. More than 21 women have been killed in ritual sacrifices between May 3rd and Sept. 4th, 2017. The body of Francis Bahati’s wife was found missing her fingers and feet. “Sacrifices often involve removing body parts, blood or tissue while the child is still alive.” Draining blood, cutting off/out genitals and beheading is not uncommon among victims sacrificed in ritual killings. The Religious News Service, Sept. 26, 2017, issued this report coming out of Uganda.

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It’s a Doggy-Dog World

In a conversation years ago with a friend, I mentioned that one of the few things that I ever heard my father philosophize on was a common saying, for some, that life was a “Dog-eat-dog world.” Life for poor folks was often a hard one. My friend relayed a similar story from someone in the past who stated it as, “It’s a Doggy-dog world.” I’m not sure how he would have explained that meaning. I am sympathetic, though, since I spent many years of my life thinking it was, “Maresy dotes.”

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President Trump Teaches Christians a Valuable Lesson

President Trump’s recent address to the joint Congress was an important lesson to all Christians and especially pastors.

It was refreshing to listen to a “politician” who, while all the world was watching, did not give an inch on his promises to the American people. The faceless masses viewing screens were not as real as the presence of Democrats in Congress who loathe, hate and plot the destruction of President Trump. Most politicians will “play to the crowd” for fear of backlash or loss of support if their message is not nuanced or somehow couched in more palatable language when addressing a hostile crowd.

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Do As I Say, Not As I Do!

Joan Lunden, as well as others, wrote, “Our Children may not always listen to us, but they never fail to imitate us.” This truth has come back to haunt almost every parent who has reared children. While some may actually state the title to their children in some form or other, most don’t realize what they really teach the child happens over a lifetime of modeling behavior. I have been impressed by the stories of several people who have been great examples of this truth (mine isn’t one of them).

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